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Insomnia Nation

When Shut-Eye Strategies Fail To Kick Insomnia To The Curb

Influence Central Disclosure ImageEvery year when Sebastian and Madelyn start school after summer break, they seem to adjust to the change in schedule quicker and easier than I do.   They’ve been back in school for almost 6 weeks (WHAT?) and I’m still trying to figure out how to get through the days without feeling like I’m going to split into thirds from going three different directions at once.  Our days, probably like yours, are made up of carpool, attending school events, after-school activities, work, and keeping up with the house – all the while trying to communicate and keep good relationships with friends and family.   With so much going on, I feel like I’m running 90 miles-an-hour, 18 hours a day.   I know you can relate.   It’s the life we chose when deciding to become parents, and I wouldn’t change it for the world, but you’d think that after 16 years I would have it down.   Tell me please – when exactly did parenting become normal and consistent for you?

Apple Watch heart rateIn order to calm my mind and body, and hopefully get to sleep before 1AM, I’ve been practicing the healthy shut-eye strategies I shared with you a couple weeks ago – including signing off from social media at least one hour before bedtime.   I also stopped exercising after 3PM.  My heart rate is naturally high and since having an Apple Watch I can actually see that it stays slightly elevated for up to a few hours after I exercise, which doesn’t make it easier for me to wind down in the evening.    As surprising as it seems to me, turning off all lights, even small nightlights, in and near our bedroom is the shut-eye strategy that’s made the biggest difference in how quickly I fall asleep.  Studies have shown that even our small lights emit enough light to miscue the brain and promote wakefulness.  Maybe nightlights aren’t such a great idea afterall?

Insomnia Nation

What if going to sleep isn’t the issue for you, but staying asleep is?
I can relate.  Staying asleep is a battle I fight almost every night.   I was diagnosed with insomnia in 2004 and I get a little riled up when I hear someone say they only got 5-6 hours of sleep the night before.   I empathize, I really do.. but I can go 48-36 hours without sleeping.  This can happen every few weeks and it’s very unhealthy.  That is why I take a prescription sleep aid nights I really need to get a good night’s sleep, such as before having to drive an 8-hour road trip or leaving for a business trip.

Not getting enough sleep, or any sleep, results in me being completely unproductive and irritable the next day.   The insomnia conquering strategies I’ve shared with you help me fall asleep but staying asleep longer than 45 minutes to an hour is another story.  If you too have insomnia, practicing shut-eye strategies alone may not be enough to help you get a good night’s sleep.

You’ll be happy to know there are effective treatment options available for those of us who suffer with insomnia, including SILENOR®, a prescription sleep aid used to treat people with insomnia who have trouble staying asleep.  Most sleep medications work on the sleep-promoting system, helping patients fall asleep, while SILENOR® works with the wake-promoting mechanism of the body’s natural sleep-wake cycle, helping patients stay asleep throughout the night and early morning.   Perhaps most important, it can be used regularly and it’s not associated with a risk of abuse or physical dependence.   If you have trouble sleeping through the night, have a conversation with your doctor about your routine, lifestyle and symptoms to determine the best option for you.

To learn more about how to achieve a full, uninterrupted night’s sleep visit Wanttosleepmore.com.

SILENOR® is a prescription sleep medicine that is used to treat people with insomnia who have trouble staying asleep. Call your doctor if your insomnia worsens or is not better within 7 to 10 days. This may mean that there is another condition causing your sleep problem. Be sure that you are able to devote 7 to 8 hours to sleep before being active again. SILENOR® should be taken within 30 minutes of bedtime. Do not take with alcohol or with other medicines that can make you sleepy. If you are on a monoamine oxidase inhibitor (MAOI) or have taken a MAOI within the past two weeks, you should not take SILENOR®. You should not take SILENOR® if you have an eye problem called narrow angle glaucoma that is not being treated, if you have severe urinary retention, or if you are allergic to any of the ingredients in SILENOR®. You should not drive or operate machinery at night after taking SILENOR®. Until you know how you will react to SILENOR®, you should be careful in performing such activities during the day following taking SILENOR®. Before you take SILENOR®, tell your doctor if you have a history of depression, mental illness or suicidal thoughts. You should call your doctor right away if after taking SILENOR® you walk, drive, eat or engage in other activities while asleep. Drowsiness is the most common adverse event observed in clinical trials. For more information, please see the complete Prescribing Information, including the Medication Guide, at https://www.silenor.com/Content/pdf/prescribing-information.pdf. You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.fda.gov/medwatch or call 1-800-FDA-1088.

Dance Recital

Not a Perfect Parent: Surviving 2 Birthdays, a Dance Recital, and Mother’s Day

I am, quite frankly, surprised I am still semi-sane after the last couple of weeks.  I was a little worried about when and if my survival techniques would kick in.   So much has been happening.  Let me premise this post by saying that life is great, I am a happy parent, and things could always be worse.

In the last few weeks I’ve had two MRIs of my brain and brain stem and found out that I have a thing on my eye that could be cancerous, or not. I’m hoping for not. The way I look at it is that there are a lot of things that *could* be cancerous.  My opthamologist dives head first into anything that concerns him in the slightest so here’s to hoping that he’s being overly cautious about this thing on my eye.  My dr. said he isn’t worried enough about it to do a biopsy so that’s good news!  I could just have a freckle on my eye.. funny, but true!

Here’s a timeline of the last couple of weeks and what’s coming up:

  • May 1st – Tim’s 40th birthday
  • May 1st – I found out about my eye issue
  • May 5th – Madelyn’s dance recital
  • May 9th – Madelyn’s 9th birthday
    • Decorate, pick up cake, and last minute goodies – AM
    • Party with friends 1-3pm
    • Take Sebastian to pick up dance date 5pm
    • Party with family 5-9pm
  • May 9th – Sebastian works at nature center (on Madelyn’s birthday)
  • May 9th – Sebastian’s school dance at night (on Madelyn’s birthday)
  • May 10th – Mother’s Day
  • May 10th – Sebastian starts Final Exam Reviews online (4 hours a night for 5 nights)
  • May 12th – Madelyn’s first ever play with acting class (5:30 – 8pm)
  • May 12th – Sebastian’s last band concert (6-8pm) – I need a clone – how do I pull this off?

Let’s get started..

It all started with Tim’s 40th birthday.   He didn’t want a big party so it was easy enough to plan.
The morning of his birthday I had a follow up appointment with my opthamologist because I failed two visual field tests recently, had laser iridotomy on both eyes for angle closure, and needed to make sure the procedures did some good.   The dr. had ordered the MRIs mentioned above, which I followed through with in late April and got clear results for a few days later.  During the follow up appointment, the dr. found a spot on my eye – also mentioned above.  While I was at my appointment, Tim went to get his emission inspection for his car registration and tag renewal and his Ford Mustang FAILED the inspection.  A couple hours later he left the repair shop having spend almost $400 to repair his car – that didn’t include the cost of tag and registration.  Kind of a bummer of a morning and beginning to Tim’s 40th birthday.

Next thing I knew, were a week out from Madelyn’s 9th birthday so guess how invitations went out –  No, I didn’t buy cute invitations at the store or send them via Evite.  I TEXTED parents a simple “can your child come to Madelyn’s 9th birthday party this Saturday?” invite!   That was pretty embarrassing.  I almost went into a long explanation about why I was texting invitations instead of sending them to school or via email – which was because I had been so stressed about my eye situation and general health issues (sick, neck pain, etc) – but who really cares?   Everyone has issues, whether it’s health, stress, being over-scheduled.  My issues are no more important than yours so I simply asked if their child could come, without apology for the late notice or explanation on why the invitation was given on such short notice.    I felt like unorganized-mom-of-the-year.   Lucky for me most of the parents responded promptly.

Dance Recital – May 5th

Madelyn had a dance recital the Tuesday before her birthday.  Tim was scheduled to work which was a bummer because Madelyn’s used to both of us being at her recitals.   I explained to her that it was going to be just her and I and she accepted it.  The afternoon of the recital I helped her get ready and we left the house 45 minutes early because I saw that a gas line burst on the main road we take to get to the venue and traffic was horrendous.  We arrived 5 minutes before showtime.  Then Tim called.  He said he was on the way to the recital..from work!  Given that his work is not nearby, I was nervous he wasn’t going to make it in time to see Madelyn’s dance and he would be upset given that he left work which is a rarity.  The stars aligned and he made it not only on time but the show didn’t start until about 15 minutes after he arrived so he got to see her dance and she saw him and she could hardly contain herself on stage when she saw him.  It was adorable!

Dance Recital

Madelyn’s 9th Birthday – May 9th

At first Tim said he wasn’t going to be off work the day of her birthday.  It’s unfortunate but it happens.  He’s in the restaurant business and when you’re in the restaurant business you don’t get holidays like Mother’s Day weekend – the weekend Madelyn’s birthday fell on this year – off.   My jaw dropped when he told me he wouldn’t be off.  How was I going to plan a party BY MYSELF?   Ultimately it all worked out.  He was able to take the day off and help with the party.  I’m no June Cleaver or one who enjoys being busy, busy, busy.  The idea of planning a home birthday party, even with Pinterest at my fingertips, is the equivalent of having to go to the library with a fussy three year old in tow, to write a Thesis.    You just wouldn’t do that – on purpose.

Madelyn was pretty bummed that Sebastian wouldn’t be around on her birthday because he was schedule to work at the nature center from 9am-4pm then he was going to a school dance from 5pm-10pm.  She was bummed and I was stressed about that.  A dance?  He’s not a center of attention, social kind of guy so he was pretty nervous.

That said, I pulled the day off and actually had fun!   I decorated inside and outside, balloons on the mailbox and everything!  The party was two hours but seemed like 30 minutes.  We had two scavenger hunts, an acting skit, cake, presents, and playtime.  Madelyn had a blast!

9th Birthday Party

Mother’s Day – May 10th

I bought my mom a Mother’s Day card when I bought wrapping paper for Madelyn’s gifts at Target a week before her birthday.   Finding the card on Mother’s Day was a bit of an issue.  After much searching and a bit of panic, I found the card on the refrigerator, where I put it the day I bought it.. for safe keeping. 🙂   Tim had to work at 9am Mother’s Day.   I slept in.  When I woke, Madelyn presented me with two miniature Orchids.  One from her and one from our puppy.  Really.

In the interim, and after Sebastian rolled out of bed around noon, the kids and I played Monopoly, one of Madelyn’s birthday presents.   The kids did what they do during the game – bickered.  I kept thinking “It’s Mother’s Day, you can’t bicker on Mother’s Day!”.  Well, there is no such thing as a perfect day I decided.

Around 2pm, after playing Monopoly for two hours, I received an email reminding me that Sebastian’s online final exam review classes start at 4:30pm – that day!  Considering I was hoping to take the kids to my mom’s house, fix her dinner to celebrate Mother’s Day, and hang out with her for a little while, I panicked seeing as how it was already 2:00.  What kind of child am I if I only stop by my mom’s house for an hour and a half on Mother’s Day?  What kind of mom and I that I didn’t realize that Sebastian’s final exam reviews started that day?

I took a deep breath and realized that my mom would appreciate any time we spend with her – any day.  She’s not one that likes being pampered.  She likes attention and effort and that’s what we gave her.

When we were about to leave to head to my mom’s house I asked Madelyn if it would be ok for me to give one of the Orchids to my mom, her grandmother.   She said “sure, you can give the one Cody gave you, to Grandmother”.  Sigh of relief!   Pulled that one off!

Mother's Day orchid

 

The weekend ended fabulously with us having spent time with my mom, Sebastian being home to start his final exam review at 4:30, and Madelyn and I played a fun game of Life and then Monopoly – until after her bedtime.   She gave me discounts on rent on her properties because it was Mother’s Day.  🙂

What a great weekend!

Now I have to get through the next two days.  Then I’ll be fine.  Sebastian’s last band concert of the school year is Tuesday at the same time as Madelyn’s first (ever) play!  I want to be at both but as one human being and parent, I clearly make that happen.  🙁

Perfection is something I usually realize is what took place, after the fact.  This weekend really was perfect even though things didn’t happen the way I visioned.

 

Get Fit for Spring and Summer! Join my Dietbet!

A couple of months ago I was invited to join a 4 week weight loss competition on a website called Dietbet.   I paid $35.00 to join and over the course of 4 weeks I had to lose 4% of my weight which was 5.8 pounds.  At the end of the 4 weeks I lost 6.6 pounds!  What did I win you ask?  I won $50.00 but more importantly, I got my eating habits under control, started working out almost every day, I had more energy, felt great about how I looked and just overall felt better.

Diet Bet

 

Then the holidays hit.  I did great with Thanksgiving and didn’t over eat.  I kept my portions small while still eating everything that I wanted to on Thanksgiving.  I felt great that I had made it through the first holiday with no weight gain!  But the month between Thanksgiving and Christmas was brutal!  All the cookies and candies – everywhere I turned there seemed to be food!

Fast forward to this week..

I stepped on the scale and I saw that I gained back over half of what I had lost a few months ago.  I needed to get back on track and get started on the right foot for the rest of this year.  So I started my own Dietbet.  I want to start eating healthy again, get all of the junk food out of my house, and start exercising on a regular basis.

You too can join my Dietbet!

Do you want to lose weight and get motivated to start exercising?  Dietbet may help you get back on track!  You can join here. Weigh-in is this Saturday/Sunday Don’t worry you can make your profile private so no one can see what you weigh.  Yes.  This is a competition BUT everyone that meets their goal wins their money back and then if we have people that do not meet their goal that money goes into the pot and gets split between those that do meet their goal.  I would love it if everyone meets their goal and wins their money back!

Have questions?  You can see what Dietbet it all about here or you can email me at kim@themommyinsider.com.  I am looking forward to going through this journey with you!

 

Santa Claus health

Mrs. Claus Wants YOU to Have a Heart-Healthy Holiday Season!

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I have been taking a cue from Mrs. Claus and checking my grocery list twice the past few weeks to make sure it has heart healthy elements like Omega-3 fatty acids and Vitamins D & E on it. Some foods that have Omega-3 in them are probably your’s and your kids favorites including salmon, sardines, walnuts, and even raspberries and kale! In order to get my daily dose of Omega-3 I not only take a fish oil dietary supplement but I have also been experimenting with smoothies as you might have seen in my post about my new Intel Tablet¹.  You might be wondering what Omega-3 is.  Omega-3 fatty acids are necessary for human health but the body can’t make them, you have to get them through food.

Mrs. Claus heart healthStudies show that instances of heart attacks increase over the holiday season.  Sad, isn’t it?   Two of the most beloved holiday icons are leveraging their celebrity this season to bring attention to heart disease – the No. 1 cause of death in the U.S. Mrs. Claus is inviting American families to join her in making the same, heart-healthy lifestyle changes she and Santa are taking on this year to raise awareness for nutrition’s role in heart health.

Adding Omega-3 to your daily diet can help with such ailments as depression, rheumatoid arthritis, asthma and ADHD.  Nutrition plays a HUGE role in the development of our children and eating a few raspberries, walnuts, a piece of salmon, or a kale salad, can possibly help reduce the risk of your child having heart issues, or even ADHD.  In addition to eating foods rich in ingredients like omega-3s, Vitamin D and E, and Beta-Glucan, the Clauses and I know it can be difficult to get all the essential nutrients we need from diet alone, so we’ve added supplements to our daily routine.

If you don’t get enough nutritional elements from your diet, ask your doctor about adding supplements like Vitamin D, fish oil and multivitamins.  I, like many busy parents, forget to eat lunch some days so I started taking a vegetable and fruit supplement as well as Omega-3 and my doctor recommended Vitamin D.   Your doctor should be able to do lab work on you to see if you are deficient in any vitamins and minerals.  Maybe getting lab work done to check your heart health (vitamin and mineral levels) is a great resolution for you for the upcoming New Year!

 

Let’s join Mrs. Claus!  Let’s offer our family’s healthier options this holiday season.  Mrs. Claus was kind enough to share some of her favorite heart-healthy recipes with us.  Click here to see four of her favorites (pdf view). There are tons of recipes for healthier cookies than what you and I might have used in the past as well as heart-healthy smoothie recipes your kids will love.  I’m sure Santa and his reindeer will appreciate a heart-healthy chocolate chip cookie and carrots for the reindeer!

To learn more about how your family can make heart-healthy choices this holiday season, visit ClausNutrition.com.  Mrs. Claus will track the progress made by Santa, as well as share tips from experts in nutrition and heart health.  To see tips and recipes, click on the “Links” icon on Mrs. Claus’ video.

Mrs. Claus had the opportunity to ask Dr. Michael Roizen, founder of RealAge.com, a few questions about heart health

Mrs. Claus’ Question:

What advice do you have for keeping heart health top of mind during the holidays and after?

Dr. Michael Roizen’s Answer:

Maintain a healthy diet, be active, keep warm, relax

Mrs. Claus’ Question:

Between Santa and myself, is one of us more likely suffer from heart disease based on gender alone?

Dr. Michael Roizen’s Answer:

No. Research shows the percentage of all deaths from heart disease is nearly 50/50 between men and women. Heart disease is not a gender-specific issue, but rather one that all of us should be focusing on.

Let’s take a peek at the Claus’ routine and see how we can improve our own routine to be more heart-healthy this holiday season!

Santa Claus health

Set a better example for your children by making heart-healthy choices for yourself!

Have a happy, healthy holiday season!

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¹ Read about my Intel Tablet and how it has helped in my smoothie journey here

My 48 Hour Super Charge Cleanse – Day 2 Including Weight Loss Update

I’m on day 2 of my 48 Hour Super Charged Cleanse.  If you didn’t read why I’m cleansing, read this post.

This post is not an explanation of what I’m doing, it’s an update.

Day 1, yesterday, I was supposed to drink the cleansing drink 4 times as a replacement for all meals and a mid-afternoon ‘meal’.  I forgot the mid-afternoon meal and felt a little shaky and hungry around 6:30pm.

David Kirsch 48 Hour Super Charged Cleanse

Day 1

Weight: 127.8

8am – 1st cleansing drink

I drank a lot of water between the 8am drink and 12:30pm drink.   I should have had the 12:30 drink closer to 11:30 but I was busy working and time slipped by. I felt fine all morning.

12:30pm – 2nd cleansing drink

I had an appointment to get my nails done with a friend at 1pm which helped keep my mind off of not eating.  Although I don’t eat much or usually have cravings, just knowing that I CAN’T eat, has been difficult for me.

3:30pm – 1st Thermo Bubbles drink

Around 3 I started feeling more hungry than I would have liked and I was getting offended when my husband or daughter would eat a snack around me.  Rather, my hunger pains were getting worse. That is when I remembered and drank a glass of Thermo Bubbles (pink lemonade) which helps energy levels and curbs appetite.  Again, I am not doing this cleanse to starve myself or with the expectation of losing even 5 pounds so curbing my appetite was just a comfort issue at that point.

7pm – 3rd cleansing drink

Around this time it was sinking in that I really wasn’t going to eat for two days so I drank this drink very slowly as if I was eating a meal so I could savor it.  Then I realized that I missed a cleansing drink somewhere during the day (you are supposed to drink 4 of the cleansing drinks in a day) so I sped up the drinking a bit knowing I’d have to squeeze in another before I went to sleep.

9:30pm – 4th cleansing drink

At 9:30pm I felt good. I didn’t feel hungry or like I hadn’t eaten all day.  I drank my 4th cleansing drink of the day and went to sleep pretty early for me.

I had hoped to sleep through the night and until at least 8 to make today seem a bit shorter but I woke at 3am feeling hungry and I was also apparently sleeping on top of a push pin all night.  My husband had been working on rearranging some pictures in our room Wednesday afternoon and left a push pin in the bed!  I was able to get back to sleep and woke at 7am.

Day 2

Weigh-in

I weigh myself every morning and this morning I weigh 2 pounds less than I did Tuesday morning but I don’t expect the 2 pounds to stay off once I start eating again.  I just wanted to let you know that I have lost a little weight. I imagine that the weight loss is more significant with the 5 Day Ultimate Detox or 7-Day Cleanse.

7:30am – 1st cleansing drink of the day

I felt pretty hungry by the time I fixed my first cleansing drink of the day.  It’s 8:04am now and I still have about 1/2 of the drink left.  Remember, you are supposed to drink these drinks slowly.  I feel good.

Plan for the day: I plan on drinking my 2nd drink at 11am, 3rd at 4pm, and 4th at 7pm with a Thermo Boost around 1pm.

Learn why I chose David Kirsch’s 48 Hour Super Charged Cleanse here and see his cleansing and health products here.

 

 

My body cleanse journey

 

 

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